Form is temporary, Class is permanent
As India celebrates the Master blaster’s ton at the Mirpur one day, statistics would be splashing all over news media of perhaps how long Sachin had to wait for this day – more than a year now and 30 matches down , India was waiting with baited breath as Sachin’s score crossed 88 runs. The last 12 runs to the century had the emotional mercury racing for the entire nation…and HE made it. Some cynics may point out that he could manage only cause it was against Bangla Desh …… nonetheless Sachin Tendulkar the classy cricketer the Shehenshah is back – back in form to overcome the stumbling score of >90, that kept mocking and keeping him tenterhooked to his ton.
Congratulations & Celebrations! The hero - a darling of the nation, showered with gifts, felicitation and revelries. But just imagine - As the dust dies down and people get on to the routines, a few test matches down the line if Sachin loses form, people will again start murmurs of his retirement. Negative thinking or reality? Well let me explain……..
Recently on the occasion of Women’s International Day, there were two events splashed on the TV that caught my attention. One was an advert by a very prominent insurance company in which aspiring women/mothers were demonstrating that they don’t need to work as they were insured - the need for insurance to make life easier - or worry free, should I say?
The other one was the retirement announcement at a press conference by the Wall- Rahul Dravid. After getting continuously bowled out, Rahul, now weak on defense, could hardly stand by his moniker – the Wall. When the veteran cricketer and commentator of yesteryear, Vijay Merchant, had announced his retirement, he had quipped – it’s better to retire when people ask you ‘why?’ rather than ‘why not?’
Rahul’s press statement also echoed mixed feelings.
Women’s International day advert and Rahul’s retirement - totally unrelated events – one may think. The common thread was that the women in the advert as well as Rahul were of the same age group or say a zone of about 35 -45. Each of the women in the advert was looking forward to retire so that having completed their obligation to the home & hearth, they were all set to fulfill or pursue their own private dreams – may be a hobby or a pastime that was alluring due to paucity of time.
While some are fortunate to contemplate a retirement and hang their boots, some others are just nipped out of the world’s stage without even a moment’s notice. The Likes of Rajeev Gandhi, Lady Diana, Michael Jackson…..O the list can be endless. At the other end we also have Sant Dnyaneshwar who ‘chose’ to take Samadhi on the conclusion of the ‘Dnyaneshwari’ – an epic commentary on Bhagwad Geeta – his life’s mission.
When one thinks closely though, one realizes that it is not respite but being fully occupied, continually growing, being creative that makes one’s life meaningful. However the joy of living gets enriched only when we get to follow our passion sans the stress, the fears, the doubts and the worries. A disturbed existence even at one’s zenith is far more painful than a peaceful yet simple life. The irony is that all the riches in the world can’t buy this peace as it is not external but within you. A story goes that Man jeers at the Honeybee and points out that all the honey is taken away by him .So while the honeybee toils, the fruits of labor are enjoyed by the Human race. The bee smiles back and says - He may be taking the honey but he cannot take away the art or skill of ‘making’ honey from me – and that I think is the secret of happiness.
Anagha Hunnurkar
16th March , 2012